One of the realities of priesthood is that we confront death
often. Sometimes death shows up in
unexpected and tragic ways and at other times through a more normal process.
A
great gift of the priesthood is seeing someone die well—someone who lives out
St. Paul’s words to the Romans: “if
we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord; so
then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s.” It is an inspiration to me watching
someone who completely trusts God.
Most
recently Fr. Rich and I visited Fr. John Sustersic a mere hour before he
died. We priests agree that he was
a living saint among us who had suffered a lot in his life. Notably, he had been blind for
decades. I didn’t know him well,
but I did hear two cool stories about this great priest. First, he lived across the hallway at
BHC from Monsignor O’Shea. Near
the end of Monsignor’s life, Fr. Sustersic went into his room to pray Night
Prayer at days’ end. I couldn’t
help but wonder which priest will be doing that for me at the end of my own
life.
Second,
about a week before he died, Fr. John was in a church praying. While in prayer he saw the crucifix
clearly—the first object he had seen clearly in decades. He gazed on it and told his friend, “I
think the Lord is ready for me.”
We
are surrounded by men and women who face death well—indeed, that’s what we
celebrated last Friday on All Saints’ Day. The holy ones knew that whether they lived or died, they
were the Lord’s.
Finally,
reflecting on death helps us avoid judging others. When you get caught up in gossip, annoyances or
disagreements that lead to judging another remember that you, and this other
person, will die. “Why then do you judge
your brother or sister?”
The
thought of death should bring us to our knees, to recognize that we are the
lost sheep or the lost coin in the Gospel. In recognizing our frailty, weakness and sinfulness we do
well to seek forgiveness and show mercy on others. In so doing, we spark a party in heaven for those who have
gone before us because “there will be
rejoicing among the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”
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